A sad story of my marriage to a German man

Krystyna

Krystyna

Krystyna is a Ukrainian woman who blogs about dating Ukrainian & Russian women and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Ukrainian/Russian-Western relationship.

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2 Responses

  1. Val says:

    Hello Evgeniya,

    I’m sorry to hear that you met a German man with all those personal problems! I’m German myself and I can tell you that not every German man is like him. If I were you, I would take German language classes (you can take them at a reasonable price at schools called “Volkshochschule” -VHS-) and meet new people. If you have a permit to stay in Germany and there is not much for you in Russia to go back to, I would say stay in Germany but make sure that you do study the German language! Go out and make friends and you never know, you might meet a new man who is much better for you. Good luck!

  2. J Walker says:

    Yes, you have concerns but don’t forget you married him either in hope that you would share and adventure. 3 months…my goodness which planet do you live on and one can tell you haven’t had much experience in life. You must have had something to be writing for two years.. If you are definitely incompatible, which is the usual reason relationships fail…then than is difference. People are not disposable units like toilet paper….Try going to some counselling and mediation first; yes learn the native language…but you need to work hard on this. You give up too easily. If after counselling and a year – yes then consider alternatives but always communicate together even if you need support on eventual separation so you can do this with little hurt. I write this as experience as a Samaritan and under those conditions I would not advise you but here it is different….

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