How to Write the Perfect First Mail to your Russian Bride? (Part 1)

Dear friends,

I am happy to present you the first part of the video tutorial “How to Write the Perfect First Mail to your Russian Bride?” When searching for a foreign bride, go straight to the source. If you make a love connection, sending a very first message to your Ukrainian or Russian lady is inevitable. You may be nervous, you may even experience a lack of creativity. I would like to give you some easy tips for writing your first love letter.

Transcription of the video tutorial:


I am Krystyna, a Ukrainian and Russian dating blogger.

So, you’ve found a beautiful Russian or Ukrainian girl on a dating site that you would like to know better. You write her a message but she doesn’t write back: why? Usually, because your mail was poor, unnoticed, non-informative or boring. But the best thing is that you can change that.

Today, I give you some tips how to write the perfect first message:

#1: Put yourself in her shoes.

Do you have any idea how many emails Russian or Ukraine girls get from Western men on dating sites? For example, I got over 20 emails in one day when I was active in online dating. I didn’t have time to write back every message I got, especially when most of them say the same things. That leads me to my next point, which is this:

#2: Make your message stand out.

Start with the letter title. Please don’t put something like “hey baby what’s up” or “hi“. Most emails I got started that way. You have to catch my attention right away or chances are I won’t open your email. Try phrases that will interest me like “What I like most about you” or “This is what we have in common” or “Would you answer one question for me?

#3: Ask questions based on what my profile says.

If you don’t mention the Russian or Ukrainian girl’s profile at all she wonders if you have even read it. Asking questions about information in the girls’ profile lets them know you have taken the time to read it, which they appreciate. Asking questions also makes Russian or Ukrainian girls more likely to write you back, since they feel rude not answering your questions.

Tell us why you think you would have a good time together. Some western men who want Russian or Ukraine women for dating believe that we would love to date them just because they are from the west. But it is a big mistake to think so! You should really give your best to write an impressive first message to us!

To be continued in Part 2.

If you need more information on Ukrainian and Russian dating, just visit my site or write me a message! 🙂


krystyna Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)



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Krystyna is a Ukrainian woman who blogs about dating Ukrainian & Russian women and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Ukrainian/Russian-Western relationship.

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1 Response

  1. tim turigliatto says:

    i have watched your videos on your site and on youtube, i am looking for a woman from Ukraine to settle down with, most of them i have e-mailed on different dating sites mostly talk about is sex, . This may sound strange coming from a man , but i want more than just sex, can you help ? and or what advice do you have ? thank you very much for your time. Tim

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