Searching for the right Ukrainian & Russian bride online (Lesson 3)

Dear friends,

My third professional dating video tutorial is ready. In today’s video we’ll talk about how to search for the right Ukrainian & Russian woman through onlina dating services. The video tutorial series is kindly produced by Alexandra Vetter, a good friend of mine and wonderful woman from Russia (her official site:

Enjoy, guys! I would appreciate to hear your comments! 🙂

Transcription of the video

In the first two video lessons, we talked about starting a Ukrainian dating adventure and we learned how to choose the right dating agency. What’s the next step? Right, now you have to start looking for a wife through the dating service you have chosen.

You think this is easy? No way! Many men complain to me that although they seem to do everything right, namely: they learn much about Ukrainian culture and use the right dating service, but they still can’t find a woman for marriage. Why not? Because of false and non-realistic expectations of Western men. Of course, this leads to frustration.

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The problem is that a Western man looking for a Ukrainian woman online tends to dream about having the perfect wife. He wants someone who is beautiful, smart, sweet, family-oriented and fluent in English. He desires the best homemaker who already understands what it is like to live in the West. So do you believe you can find such a woman? I do not think so.

There are some things to remember when searching for a wife from Ukraine:

1) Nobody is perfect

You will not find a match in Ukraine if you set your standards too high. Dating agencies are happy to sell you a “fantasy” woman but the reality is that they are normal women who have their good and bad sides.

2) Age differences

Most Ukrainian women prefer older men. A 10 to 15 year age difference is okay. However, when a 60-year-old man is looking for a thirty-year-young woman, such a big age gap will only lead to problems in the marriage.

3) Looking for a model-princess woman from Ukraine

Some men seem to only be looking for the most beautiful women on the dating sites. In my view, it would be much better for these men to just meet a woman of average looks, but who also has many interests that are similar to them.

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In conclusion, I would like to say that you must be certain to go slowly. You cannot get to know a woman in one mail, and you cannot possibly find a woman by e-mailing hundreds. Exercise some patience and common sense. Look for Ukrainian women who also share your principles, beliefs, ambitions in life, and similar needs for having a family; not for top-models who are 20-30 years younger than you.

Patience is a virtue and the best things in life are worth waiting for. ― Julie Spira, a famed online dating expert (, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online)

This was the third Lesson of the Video-tutorial “5 Steps to Success in Ukrainian & Russian Online Dating” by Krystyna. In the next lesson we are going to talk about “Effective online communication with a Ukrainian woman”.




Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)



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Krystyna is a Ukrainian woman who blogs about dating Ukrainian & Russian women and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Ukrainian/Russian-Western relationship.

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