Ukrainian dating experience with a gold digger

Krystyna

Krystyna

Krystyna is a Ukrainian woman who blogs about dating Ukrainian & Russian women and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Ukrainian/Russian-Western relationship.

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3 Responses

  1. Adam Black says:

    A $1000 per day expenses is my experience. I was taken (miles out of the way one night in Odessa to a restaurant which was so expense it was ridiculous) We requested we leave before the main Couse was even ordered and yet the bill was still over $300 (from just entrée and drinks for 3 people, myself, the girl and the interpreter). Of cause I had to pay it. You have no power and/or control in this country. You have foolishly come there for love (from your perspective) and yet you have really come there to be played (from their perspective). Really guys, STAY AWAY. I have entered other posts here on this website. Read them please. Take Care and Be Aware!

  2. Marc says:

    I have to disagree with Adam here. You can meet perfectly nice Ukrainian women in Kiev or Odessa. I always met only people who would speak a least some English so that we were able to communicate.

    I would never go anywhere with someone who does not speak English (and no offence to Krystyna as a translator). I had once a chance to meet a girl in Moscow, who did not speak English, and despite the fact that I already knew Moscow quite well I decided not to go because what can you do if you cannot talk even about the weather ?

    If the girl really likes you she should be able to know why and vice versa. Granted, the letters translation can help, but an English crash course requires no more than 3 months and the same for Russian or Ukrainian.

    So if there’s no way you can speak, don’t go ! It’s not a matter of Russian or Ukrainian, it’s matter of logics, it would be the same in Asia or anywhere on the globe.

    • Jim says:

      Roger that, Marc.
      And I’ll take it further.

      Going half way around the world so to meet & to possibly marry & then to ask of her to leave her country / culture. In the very least, we guys should speak & write something of their language. To place the responsibility upon the woman is ludicrous! I mean, what is she worth to you? To go @ it on the cheep? And to “expect” her to know our language so to make it “easy” on us? Come-on guys, this is the hunt.

      The hunt of a lifetime! And for a lifetime.

      So give me a break! Last I checked, I am the man & therefore it is MY responsibility to find her & to give to her all that she requires (& more). It is my job to make-it-as-easy-for-her-as-is-possible, not just with our meetings, yet also through out our marriage. Her only job is to stand by me & to support me as I take on the world (as a businessman & as an employee for those with jobs). The “English” will come to her. I am really in love with her & more than willing to teach her myself. {{{Oh how fun!!!}}}

      So guys, let’s protect our women.

      And as men, we must treat our women as a princess until we vow to her. And from there on until death do part, as queen. It really is very simple; learn the language before parachuting into an unknown culture / country. I mean, are we going there as “tourists” or are we going there with a mission, as hunters?

      I’d even go so far & state that if such a man is not willing to do so, to learn the basics of the language, then No woman in Ukraine or Russia should dishonor herself by investing her time with such a figure of a man. An interpreter, swell. Just keep the interpreter on the back burner in-case-of . . . .

      This game of trying not to be hurt goes both ways, guys. It is obvious that these beautiful women asking for us guys to present ourselves as a possible spouse to them, they have far suffered greater casualties within their lesser countries. Go easy on em, ok? They are the emotional creatures, not us.

      And guys, remember, a whiny man это человек с поводка ищет мать, не жена! Ouch!

      Nuff said.

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