It’s Hard For Ukranian Brides To Adjust To A Western Country
The question of whether immigrants only come to this country for a green card is just as unfair to the women of the Ukraine as it is to say the same about most other people. But no-one ever complains about the Canadians trying to get green cards. So, when someone questions the motives of people who want to marry, consider that there might be a myriad of reasons for marriage, including love.
It’s a mutual relationship between a man and a woman. Therefore, yes the importance of the contract is the ‘family’ that is created in the process. It takes dedication on the part of both individuals to make it work. So, even if it is somewhat difficult for women from the Ukraine to adjust, the added stress of coming to a completely different culture needs to be understood by her new husband. It’s stressful to change your life completely, especially for love. But love can tolerate almost anything, and young people are flexible.
Everyone has difficulty adjusting to the environment and a way of life in a new country, particularly if they don’t have relatives that already understand the culture; however, the attitude one has before embarked on such an adventure as moving to another country takes courage and fortitude anyway. Of course, the better adjusted one is to begin with, will depend on how easy the transition is.
It’s true however, that family is the most defining factor in ease of adjustment. That’s why a woman needs to be aware of the personality of the individual she is thinking of marrying. Whatever your personality, it’s obvious that any marriage is a give and take relationship, and if each gives one hundred percent to the contract of marriage, the couple will be happy.
Thus, it’s true that an immigrant has to build a whole new support structure when they come to the U.S. and it would be the same for anyone coming to a new country; However a good way to form new bonds is to attend your local church Find in-laws and relatives of the husband who are sympathetic to the trials of an immigrant marriage. Perhaps the most liberal enclaves of the country make the adjustment easier; whatever is the case of the individual, pertaining to adjustment, it’s easier if you make plans first.. Resilience is the key, and patience, and empathy.