My Ukrainian girl is a pro-dater: a sad dating story (Part 1 of 3)

Krystyna

Krystyna is a Ukrainian woman who blogs about dating Ukrainian & Russian women and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Ukrainian/Russian-Western relationship.

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7 Responses

  1. No Thanks says:

    A few things popped out to me from your story. But first I have to say WOW!!!

    “Can a person be a scammer when you have their address, can see them at the social forum on mail.ru?”

    If you’re asking the question, more than likely. .

    “When I arrived the first time to Simferopol, the first day we met, she come with a “private taxi”, (a private car with a driver)”

    A private car with a driver, who charges twice the going to rate as real taxis??? First off, this is probably her boyfriend or her husband…

    “At my visit at summer, she told me a man from USA had visited her, and lied about he could not have children. At my second visit, she told me this man had not visited her, only written letters and told her he cannot have children. =different stories.”

    Obviously she can’t keep her lies straight…

    “She wanted me to pay for her passport, the fast delivery, doubled price. She promised to visit me if I gave her money for passport. She had a paper about every part that cost money. I checked with a scammer detective. He made a background check on her and told me she seemed OK, and her information was OK, and recommended me to pay for it, which I did to her bank account, ”

    So not only has she bilked you of money for expensive long private taxi rides chauffeured by her boyfriend, gotten expensive gifts, dinners, and god knows what else you purchased for her… But you’ve been scammed into sending her money directly to her bank account.

    Not only would she not let you go to her apartment, probably because her real life there is not at all like the one she led you on to believe. I can probably guarantee her “taxi driver” lives there with her..

    Then, she didn’t even say goodbye to you when you left the country?

    I’ll say it again, WOW!!!

    Learn to keep your money in your wallet. I don’t care what anyone says, no woman in ANY culture (if she is genuinely interested in man) will expect him to buy her gifts, expensive dinners all the time, and pay for taxi service everywhere.

    However, if she’s just looking for some extra spending money, nice gifts, nights out on the town, she’ll gladly EXPECT all those things. And get mad when she doesn’t receive them.

    Good luck!

  2. TS says:

    Well, surprise surprise. The guy who couldn’t have children from USA? That was me. I too went through the rounds with her. Private taxi I assumed was her boyfriend. Many restaurants. I bought her a nice yellow dress. Perhaps she wore it for you? Yeah, i saw her in April 2012. Seaside visits in Sevastopol. Yalta. Kira, either her trainer or trainee, strange girl, heavy and not very attractive came along a few occasions. Acted as a child on occasion. I met a woman who she claimed to be her mother. Olga had nice photos in a red dress on elenasmodels where yes in fact she was a supposed verified client. Many more details I could provide, but you get the idea. She is a scammer as I suspected in my 10 days visit to her.

    • Sture says:

      Hello, thanks for your interesting story. Many years have passed, but I saw your story finally now. At least something she told was true, you exist, and it would be interesting to hear more about your story. Olga sended me photos in April 2012, when she was fishing from a boat in Sevastopol. Now I’m sure you took those photos and paid the trip! Maybe many girls in Crimea are golddiggers. I liked the nature in Crimea. And I meet another girl there, who not asked for anything first year, but later she told, she expected a man to pay 3000 dollars per month, from first week!!! And her x boy friend, was a Russian man, grow up in LA, and now lived in Zurich. He worked as manager for an American bank. She visited him there, on a working visa. I wonder how much he was scammed before he understood, if he ever did. Those scammer use the tricks, they began act so bad that the man ends the relationship, so he understands not it was her plan. Send more about your story, if possible.

  3. Fishy McFilet says:

    I have a similar story to tell which happened to a close friend of mine. I have changed the names and some minor details to protect the victim, but I am happy to share the scammers name. if you want to read the story, please send an email, I will send you a pdf of the story.

  4. Merlin says:

    Hey fishy. Im interested to know.

  5. David says:

    Miss Dream Singles 2018 is Olga, 34, Kiev Ukraine Met at dating site Dream Singles.
    I will try to make a very long detailed story short.
    I met Olga who says she is a womans clothing designer in Kiev around August of 2017.
    During this time she said she loved me many times and also said she wanted to get married to me by the end of 2018.
    She told me anything she thought I wanted to hear and deceived lied and misled me during this time.

    She wrote to me over a year and deceived me into continuing to pay the dating site to communicate with her and also use there chat services.
    She asked me to visit and I agreed and went to spend time with her and had planned to propose during the time she said we would spend together having romantic dates spending a few days at the sea and she would introduce me to her mother and children to welcome me into the family.
    She did not arrange any of the plans we had talked about before I came. I gave her 2 month’s notice before I arrived.
    During my 13 day visit she would not see me the 1st week. We met only 3 times for about 2 hours each, and all the meetings were only during lunchtime and all with a translator that I believe was her girlfriend. I tried to explain I was upset because we did not do the things she said and only spent a few hours with me and her reply was that I’m a big boy and was being negative. I was shocked at her attitude about everything.
    After having lunch each time we ended up at a shopping mall where I was manipulated into buying many gifts for her and her children which she gladly exploited.
    I spent about $7500 on her which included the cost of the trip logging and gifts.
    She treated me like a stranger not the man she had said she wanted to marry and loved for almost a year.
    The translator told me that the only way to show I was serious was to buy her gifts which I reluctantly went along with because I was in love and planned to propose.
    Before I left I asked her many times I wanted to plan a night date which went ignored and before I left she made up excuses to end our relationship which she never intended to have to begin with. She broke my heart.
    The bottom line is she lied deceived me and played with my emotions to manipulate me into paying the dating site to communicate with her and also into visiting so she could have me buy her food and gifts.
    She is a cold hearted evil person that has no respect for others or herself and will stop at nothing to get what she wants regardless of who she hurts along the way.
    If you see her run or you will be left with an empty wallet and a broken heart.

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