I would have liked to know everything in July 2016 what I just read here, then I wouldn’t have spent so much money. It’s a pity but I cannot do anything now.
NatashaClub: Company Definition
NatashaClub is not the cheapest service in a field of bride agensies, and they might be a bit old-fashioned, but they sure that all profiles on site are real, and go an extra mile for you to achieve the results you deserve.
NatashaClub are strongly privacy oriented and opposed to the way most other social media companies treat your data
NatashaClub Experience: Is NatashaClub legit?
I can say that loneliness and sadness are the worst advisers, also despite what my brain said I followed stupidly my heart. This is my story with someone of NatashaClub. I cannot qualify necessarily the experience as something bad, because I found different kind of woman, I made friendship with few, but I didn’t achieve my goal and my heart was broken. But I’m going to focus on one case I had, it will be difficult to be brief, but I will try.
NatashaClub Review: First problems
We talked by phone with a Translator many times even we had a video chat. I used the gift service of NatashaClub and I bought to her flowers, a Teddy Bear and Chocolates. A small detail, we used to use the same translator in our phone calls and the video chat, I liked the way she worked even she was helping me because I was learning Russian. I could say that I became friend of the translator, Christina.
In our communication we talked about us, likes and dislikes, but every time I asked about her family or friends or something more private, she avoided answering or her answers were too short. After a month of communication we talked about a possible meeting in Ukraine or anywhere else.
Few weeks later (September 2016), we agreed that she would come to me to take vacations with me; she had considered it as the best option. The problem was that she didn’t have an international passport, but she had requested it.
The talking continued and in certain point I was thinking about her all the time, I was acting as a complete fool. Unexpectedly I told her that I would like that in those vacations I wanted she remain with me forever, she agreed, also we started to talk about a future together, marriage, even kids. Yes, I know I was too fool, but she had became all for me.
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First communication with a Ukraine girl at NatashaClub
I registered myself on NatashaClub on July 17th, 2016 and I went to sleep, the next day I woke up and saw that I have received some letters, I read them, and start communication with one lady of that group of letters. I liked what she wrote, her username was SmilingInna25, her real name Inna Kalmykova.
There’s something important, she never asked for money. Since the first moment I get trapped with the words that Inna wrote, and since then until the end of May 2016, we had communication everyday, two or three letters per day. After 15 paid messages in two weeks, I got her email, where sometimes we shared letters and few pictures.
Misunderstanding was rather big
At the beginning of November after a phone call she told me that she would receive her passport that day, but that didn’t happen, according to her the passport office requested to do all the procedures again. After four months and several troubles with her passport she told me that she found someone who could help her to cross the border, leave Ukraine on April and come to me.
I was really scared and I believed that I convinced her not to do that, I thought it was too dangerous. I needed to find a solution, after consulting with lawyers here in Mexico. I found a solution, I told her that I needed go to Ukraine, but she refused, she told me that it was very dangerous.
Suddenly on April she stopped writing for three days, I was scared again, I remembered what she told me, when she wrote again I noticed something wrong, the letters seemed different. The translator suggested me block her profile until we had a proof, a video chat to confirm that everything was fine with her.
After three weeks her profile was reactivated. Until she agreed to have the video chat, our communication was by email, and not so often as before, two or three times per week. During that time I received a video from her saying how much she missed me and how much she loved me.
A friend who is psychologist analyzed that small video and she told me many things, the main is that Inna was not lying, she was confused because it was something she wanted but never expected. But I should confess I didn’t like me something of that video.
One week after her profile was reactivated, we had that video chat, one of the best hours of my life, she was beautiful and she melt me with everything she said, she blushed and I was the happiest man alive, then she suggested me going to Ukraine, I answered that I needed to do some calculations and I would say later when would be.
After I reviewed the cost of the trip and all things that should be necessary, I told her that I was ready to go to Ukraine then she refused again, I didn’t understand it. During that last week of the relation, we had several misunderstood then with so much pain in my heart, I ended the relation.
She blamed me that I cut her future, that I broke her heart and other things. Something that surprises me now is that she never tried to retain me, I think if she told the truth she would have tried to retain me, but she didn’t.
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Lying is a part of the job
Few days later in a talking with the translator, Christina, she took the decision to block Inna’s account, arguing if she wasn’t ready to act in a mature way with the relationship she didn’t deserve being there, she could cause more problems to another men. Even I was fool there, because I tried to avoid that suspension, but I couldn’t and her profile was suspended.
I never lied to her, I was completely open and sincere, but I don’t know how real was she, I will never know it.
Since I got her data, I investigated and got many information, she shared few things about her but she lied about others, like where she lived; she doesn’t live at Rovenki she live at Kharkov. I found her VK profile and when I asked about it she told that her profile was for job, not personal, but who publish photos in bikini on a job’s profile if she is lawyer?
She lied about her passport, later I knew that she visited Moscow. She hid many things about her or avoided to share others. I never knew from her that one of her passions was make up.
I still can have access to the more than 800 letters I received from her, she deleted her VK profile, the last I knew about her was that she is not working as lawyer anymore and now she became make up artist. I received many signs from the begining and I ignored them, it means I was fool.
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Conclusion: My heart was broken
By other hand, in NatashaClub, I found Oksana, someone who has became one of my best friends, she supported me when my heart was broken, she is amazing, we have communication thru email, I follow her in Instagram and I like her, but she started recently a relation and I’m not going to be a problem.
Also I have communication with other 2 women by email, but not often; I suspended my profile since August. I still want to find my life companion, I would still like her to be Ukrainian or Russian, but I’m afraid to try with so many scammers.
What can I say? I found few good women on NatashaClub, others that I have my suspicious, and I found Inna, who stoles my heart and probably I will never know if she was real.
About the editor: Krystyna is the author of three dating ebooks, including ‘Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies’ & ‘International Dating Digest For Men: Finding Love Overseas’. As the leading International Dating Expert and Dating Coach Krystyna is a consultant for many dating sites and is involved in a wide variety of different areas, such as personal dating coaching, online dating and matchmaking.
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