uadreams.com Review: an incredible experience
First of all, I would like to thank you for interesting reading about dating in Ukraine. I hope you have the time to read my letter and help me with some thoughts and advice.
I live in Sweden and my age is 37 years old, been separated for a couple of years back. I have been a registered member on a few different dating sites in Ukraine since 2 years ago, but I guess the last couple of months I have dedicated more time into it on a more serious level.
I have been to Ukraine 4 times this year, and had some meetings with ladies from these sites. Of course, I know some basic things about what to do and what I should never do, I have been exposed to scammers many times, but it is common sense. Why should I send money to a girl I never met and don’t know if she exists?! So I never put so much energy on such letters. When I ask them about webcam chat they always say that they don’t have camera, haha! Every time.
Anyway, I want to tell you about my thoughts about a special website I have been member at over one year – www.uadreams.com. This is a site where men pays for sending letters and pays for introduction meeting and such things.
At first when I registered I did not believe that these girls were honest or even existed in real. But I took contact with a few girls and corresponding with them, and I thought I could give it a try. So I booked an introduction to two of these girls who I felt I had best connection with, and they really wanted to meet me.
I came to Nikolaev, and meet the first lady and we had a great time, but it didn’t feel like it was that girl I have been writing letters with. And also it felt strange with the other girl also, which I met the next day. One of them I got contact details from, but I never heard from them again after our date. Maybe it was no chemistry between us, or maybe their mission was only to meet me so agency got paid for all letters and introduction meet? I don’t know.
But some other things I wonder about also, almost none of these girls on this site don’t speak English. Why? Many of them have nice educations and jobs in travel and international business. For an example, one of the girls is manager of a travel agency, and she doesn’t know English?!? Strange…
And one other thing is feel is strange, every time I send a letter to a girl I get always back and nice letter with many nice words about how happy they were to see a letter from me, and so on. Often the day after I send letter.
Many of them says that I am the only guy they corresponding with, but I have doubts about it!
I don’t think I can attract 100 women if I send letter to 100 women. I mean, why should EVERYONE answer? Or is there a just paid letter writer who only is interested of me to send more letters I pay for? And why is letters coming during daytime when they are at work? If I send a letter late at evening, I often got letter back next day. They need translation also, what they say.
And one more thing is also strange, the girls at this page never find their husband it seems! Same girls are there month after month. How can hundreds of incredible beautiful girls never find a man to be with? There must be hundreds of men writing them.
I know these girls exist for real, I have met a few of them in real and I have met them in video chat also. But my concern is, are they at this site for honest intentions or are they paid to meet men and write letters?
Have you heard about this site or can you recommend me a serious site where I meet real girls who want to find love?
Hope for your answer.
Have a really nice day!
Best regards //
First I would like to say you thank you for your message and nice words about my blog. Very nice 🙂
To your questions.
I hope I can help you with my point of view and experience with Ukrainian marriage agencies. There are dating sites with good image; there are dating sites with a plenty of negative reviews. Moreover, a lot of marriage agencies work suspicious.
Honestly, I know NO Ukrainian online dating site which may be scam-free. On each International dating site you can get scammed (either of the dating agency, or scammers and professional pro-daters). There are very many Russian/Ukrainian online dating sites which do not work seriously or there are a lot of scammers and professional pro-daters on them.
I have heard about UADreams but have never used their services, therefore I cannot say you if the girls are real or not. There is no evidence if the site works unseriously or the girls who have their profiles on this dating site are scammers and professional pro-daters.
Sometimes, the whole teams of scammers work on base of fake profiles. In my opinion, all your arguments seem to be logical and I understand why you are sceptical about the sincerety of the girls on the dating site and especially about the work of this agency UADreams.
I have read on different Russian & Ukrainian women forums that the dating site system encourages you to pay for letters from attractive Ukrainian girls “with genuine intentions for marriage“. Unfortunately, these messages are not written by the girls but by the company staff (probably men!!).
Some men share their experiences with UADreams (ukrainiandatingstories.com/ua-dreams) and tell that they have received and paid for many messages through this system but by chance met a number of girls through other agencies and discovered that they had never heard of them!!!
There are free alternatives, like the dating social networks. I would like to recommend you free dating sites:
How to use these sites, please read my articles here:
com/2012/08/pay-pay-krystynas- review-free-russian-ukrainain- dating-services/
com/2012/01/mambaru- alternative-international- dating-sites/
These sites are simple to use and totally free. You can loose only your time (but not your money).
Moreover, you can use social networks VKontakte.ru:
My next advice is be optimistic. I know it is not easy. Optimism is also important for success, isn’t it? I have experienced that most Western men are scared about the fact of getting been scammed. This fear does not give them the opportunity to be happy about their communication with the Ukrainian woman who can be their match for life.
Online dating is like offline: sometimes you have luck, sometimes you do not have luck… sometimes you meet a woman for life after just two days, sometimes you have to look for your match a few years. I have heard about negative and positive experiences. And I made bad and good online dating experience, as well.Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)