I would like to share my experience with you about my trip to the Ukraine and offer some advice to men considering finding a wife.
Ukrainian and Russian women have been constantly exploited for sex by men from different countries traveling to these countries for that sole purpose. They have promised these women their false sincerity and promises of marriage breaking their hearts and letting them down into deep despair.
4 brides and one bachelor
As a result women from these countries have very little trust in regard to the sincerity of foreign men even if many men are truly sincere. They have to pay the price from the wrongs created by men that were insincere. It has created a very big problem that complexes find a wife and it has made the cost of finding a foreign wife astronomically expensive.
In 2019 I went to the Ukraine after communicating with four different women for more than eight months that were from different cities in the Ukraine. Each woman I corresponded with knew that I had been alone in life for more than 6 years and that my intension for going to the Ukraine was solely to find a compatible mate in life.
I want a wife from Ukraine!
During this 8 month period our written communication was about developing a relationship leading to marriage and family. All of the women I communicated with claimed to desire a good man for the same purpose and our letter to each other were reflective of this mutual intent. So after many months of writing online through emails and chat at an expense of nearly $9,000.00 + dollars by invitation I made arrangements to travel to the Ukraine to meet the women I had written to for eight months.
In September of 2019 I arrived in Kiev, Ukraine took a taxi to my booked hotel and the next day contacted a woman I had been writing to for eight months. Her reply even asking me to come to the Ukraine was “I cannot meet with you.” So my first week in Kiev was spent taxing around the city touring the different historical sites.
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My second epic fail in Nikolaev: she didn't answer my call
After a week I got in contact with a woman from Nikolaev, Ukraine that invited me and that claimed she wanted to meet me that I had also written for eight months. So, I took a bus from Kiev to Nikolaev and arrived at my booked hotel. As soon as I arrived I called her number, the same number I used to contact her before I left Kiev and I could not reach her.
I sent her emails for three days and also repeatedly called trying to reach her in Nikolaev with no result. After photo touring around Nikolaev for four days, I contacted another woman I had written to for eight months in Kharkov, Ukraine through email who wanted to see me there.
Kharkov: my third fiancee
Then I took a taxi to Kharkov, to my booked hotel. Upon my arrival in Kharkov I contacted this woman and made arrangements to meet with her and an interpreter for dinner. Agency interpreter fee are 20.00 per hour and taxi fare for both plus the cost of dinner. On the average for a four to five hour meeting total cost is between 280.00 to 300.00 for each meeting including dinner cost for three people not including any gift you may desire to buy for your date.
I met with this woman four times and our first meeting was honestly similar to having met someone for the first time at a bus stop an hour before; no mention of our correspondence for eight months about a relationship and marriage ever was discussed.
Unhappy end in Kharkov
After the third date I brought it up with the interpreter at our third dinner and all that was said was a request to send her an invitation to visit the U.S. through the government. At the end of the third date I tried to kiss her good night before she and the interpreter went home and she refused. Earlier that evening I had bought her a nice pair of boots she liked for 300.00 as a gift.
At this point I was disappointed and felt hurt honestly by her rejection and lack of communication about the development of a relationship and I told myself that our fourth meeting would be our last if I felt again distance and a lack of our becoming close to each other again.
I continued my Ukrainian romance trip
Sure enough at the end of our fourth date together I tried to kiss her and hold her and she refused completely. It was obvious to me an attraction towards each other was non-existent and that no relationship can be built like this. The next day I called her cancelled or flowing date and told her I had to leave which I did. Again I tried to contact the woman in Nikolaev through email and she was very apologetic and asked me to forgive her because she was ill in the hospital at the time I tried to meet with her. So, back to Nikolaev I went again by Taxi arriving at my booked hotel.
The next day and for three consecutive days I met with the woman from Nikolaev and her interpreter going to different places together in Nikolaev and eating at nice restaurants. At the end for the third evening I tried to kiss my date good night and she refused to kiss me. I couldn’t believe it especially after we had been discussing being together as a couple during the day. During the third day this woman explained to me that she had to have surgery and I gave her 800.00 to help her get the surgery she needed.
Kisses are forbidden!
On the fourth day I met with them in the morning and spent most of the day with them again doing things together. In the morning of the fourth day I asked my date to come with me to a private place in the lobby of the hotel and I again I tried to kiss her and she refused. We walked a short distance into the restaurant where the interpreter was waiting and when we sat down I began having a conversation with my dates interpreter about my dates intensions as she had claimed to want us to become engaged.
I told her interpreter that I didn’t think my date was sincere about saying she wanted us to become engaged when she doesn’t even desire to kiss her proposed fiancée. I was passively furious about it inside trying to control getting loud in the restaurant about it. Then her interpreter said that she had met and American man and those they had agreed to become engaged and that they were never intimate until his fourth trip to the Ukraine.
New rules of dating with a Ukrainian woman
I told her it wasn’t normal and I told her I do not believe my date has sincere feeling of engagement with me if she will not even allow me to kiss her. The Interpreter’s reply was that “I am being selfish.” Immediately I got up alone and left the restaurant leaving them both there while I went to take a walk. I had had it and needed to calm down before I lost it. I was away from the for about 20 minutes cooling down and debating to myself if I even needed to come back at all.
Finally I returned and said let’s just spend the day together. At the end of the fourth evening finally my date allowed me to kiss her good night. Thank you, LOL. She also told me that she had to go into the hospital the following morning and would not be able to see me for four days while she was in the hospital.
Ukrainian women are unsincere
I said to her I will come see you in the hospital and bring you flowers and she said she didn’t want me to see her in the hospital that her mother would be there with her. Very unusual but again I had pretty much ad it with the days previous events, kissed her goodnight and told her that I would be going to Odessa for three days while she was in the hospital.
The next morning off to Odessa I went again to tour the city and meet yet another person and her interpreter. I met once with my date in Odessa and spent the day touring the city and having dinner together. We were not very compatible and after the first date I spent the next two days alone touring Odessa with an English speaking taxi driver who was honestly a nice tour guide.
I lost all my mail order brides
After this I was contacted by the woman in Nikolaev that met with me with her interpreter for two more days asked me for 700.00 to help her with her medical problem (kidney stones requiring surgery), and that after the second meeting that she would be in the hospital for two weeks. I told her I had to return to America as at that point I had been in the Ukraine nearly a month. We never became intimate with each other and I just felt that any woman that claimed to want to marry a man and had no desire to be romantically intimate with him is not being truthful with him.
So the next day she had to enter the hospital as she claimed and I took a taxi back to Kiev, Ukraine where I stayed another 14 days. During that 14 days I met two other women with the help of an interpreter. The first was a lawyer working in a shoe store. We met and went to dinner, went shopping where I bought my date a nice coat and the next day my date wanted to meet for lunch at her work. I said I will bring something to your work and we can eat lunch together when you have your lunch break she agreed that this was a good idea.
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My adventures in Kiev
So with the help an English speaking taxi driver friend, the taxi driver killed ourselves to go through intensely heavy traffic order a pizza and get to her place of work on time. Once the taxi driver and I arrived he waited outside while I took the pizza in to her work. When I brought the pizza in she came up to me and said that I could not eat there with her and she took the pizza and I had to leave giving me a hug. LOL
When I told the taxi driver what had happened he became so angry more than I was about it. We had worked so hard together to get that pizza and get there on time so this woman and I could have lunch with each other who had agreed to do this with me. The taxi driver and I were tired and astonished and it took us three hours to get back to our hotel. Unbelievable God!
I used all my chances to be happy
The next day my interpreter friend helped me to meet another woman that I really liked a lot but at the end of the day this woman told me that she thought I was too old for her and her son and we didn’t meet again. Two days later this same interpreter introduced me to someone else and I went with the interpreter, her young son my date and her young daughter spending the day together in Cherniv together.
I wasn’t attracted to my date and told the interpreter that was not interested. I took a taxi back to Kiev that evening arriving at my hotel around midnight. I stayed in Kiev for two more days and then returned empty handed to the U.S.
Unfortunately, i'm still alone
The cost of my total trip not including online correspondence was $22,000.00 USD. I do not drink or go to clubs and bars as I am a Christian, knowing maybe I would have had a more romantic time had I gone there instead. But I could not do this.
So this is my experience with meeting people from reputable online foreign dating sites and believing women that claim to want a good man and a family life. I am still alone in life even after this now going on eight months.
About the editor: Krystyna is the author of three dating ebooks, including ‘Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies’ & ‘International Dating Digest For Men: Finding Love Overseas’. As the leading International Dating Expert and Dating Coach Krystyna is a consultant for many dating sites and is involved in a wide variety of different areas, such as personal dating coaching, online dating and matchmaking.
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