Guide to Chinese Dating Culture
Editor: Krystyna, founder of Ukrainian Dating Blog & Ukrainian Dating Stories and speaker at the iDate conference. On this blog she shares her knowledge and experiences with international dating and intercultural relationship. Read more
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Dating is one of the many stages of a romantic relationship; the processes involve two people meeting socially to identify the other partner’s suitability as a prospective mate. Dating is different from one culture to the other in terms of the protocols followed, practices, and activities done. China being conservative cultural wise, the dating process is quite different from that of the western countries.
The Chinese culture aims to respect and honour one’s elders, parents, and ancestors; therefore, dating in china is strict. A girl would have to find a suitable man that is respectable in terms of morals, family backgrounds, and economically.
What Should I Know About Dating A Chinese Woman
It is important to have prior information before asking a Chinese woman out on a date. Some of the main factors to know before dating are Chinese woman are:
What Is Different About Dating In China?
Dating in China is different from other countries due to their conservative culture. Compared to the United States of American, there are some differences in the dating process.
In China, parents are more involved in their daughters or sons dating activities. The parent can decide that a certain young boy is not suitable for their daughter, which would mean the end of the relationship. Unlike in the US, when the parents disagree with the daughter’s choice, they become adamant, and eventually, the parents give in to the daughter’s position.
After a date, the expectations are quite different in China; after a date, you have to escort the girls back to her place or to her parents. Unlike in the United States, if the date went well, you can end up asking the girl to your place for a late-night cup of coffee.
What Do I Need To Know About Dating A Chinese Brides
Marriage is considered sacred in Сhina. Thus, dating a Chinese bride, I would recommend you have a vast knowledge of what is required of you and its benefits.
When dating a Chinese bride, one of the most important steps in meeting their bride’s parents. Chinese girls uphold family first; therefore, as a foreigner dating a Chinese woman, you will have to be presentable and very respectful while meeting her parents.
Since Chinese women respect’ the tradition that ‘a man always leads’, it is important for you to make a plan for everything. She will always follow along, but they will always be happy and content that her man is taking charge.
How Can I Impress A Chinese Woman On Dates
The main aim of the date is to impress a lady into liking you, in that case, you should have methods in which you can impress her. Here are some methods you can use to impress a Chinese woman:
How Do Chinese Women Show Love
Chinese women are known to be shy in terms of expressing their love to their partners. Instead of telling you “I love you”, they would give you little trinkets and presents to express their affection. It is interesting to know; that these trinkets are not mere gestures but a profound expression of their love.
Do Chinese Brides Show Affection In Public
Historically, Chinese culture considers physical contact between different genders unacceptable. For generations, the Chinese brides could not show their affection to partners in public for fear of being labelled party girls which is a disgraceful title in china.
However, with the rise of technology, social media, and the millennial generation. Chinese brides do show affections in public, from holding hands with their partner to wearing matching outfits.
Kissing in public is minimal for the Chinese brides. Chinese women living in western countries have adopted the western public kissing culture.
FAQs: Dating A Chinese Woman
Conclusion: Chinese dating culture
The Chinese dating culture is very strict and adheres to traditional guidelines. The culture states that a man is the one that has to make the first move in pursuit of romantic relationships. In Chinese culture, men are expected to act manly, take charge in every situation, find a date venue, and plan the entire date.
About the editor: Krystyna is an International dating blogger and writer. Here you find more than 500 articles on dating Slavic, Asian and Latin ladies. In her regularly updated blog posts, Krys has shown a keen eye for online dating issues, romance scam and cross-cultural relationships.
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