Finding love across borders can be both exciting and daunting. Many men are drawn to the idea of meeting a Ukrainian or Russian woman, but the complexities of cross-cultural relationships often make the journey challenging. Language barriers, cultural differences, and long-distance communication can turn even the most promising connection into a test of patience and perseverance.
One reader shared his story of almost giving up on finding a foreign wife. After two visits to Ukraine and deciding the cultural and language hurdles weren’t worth it, he canceled his dating site membership. However, a single email changed everything. The image of a woman from Sumy captivated him, and despite his cautious approach—”Do not fall in love with a picture”—he found himself communicating with her for a year before finally meeting in person.
His story highlights the importance of preparation, such as investing in a translator device, and the need to manage expectations, especially regarding cultural norms like public displays of affection. This article will delve deeper into his experience, offering practical advice for those considering a similar journey in 2025 and beyond. Keep reading to learn how to navigate the complexities of international dating and increase your chances of finding genuine love.
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Hello Krystyna,
I just wanted to let you know that I am enjoying your website and appreciate your common sense ‘native’ advice. I had been in Ukraine twice and became interested in, then lost interest in, finding a FSU wife. I decided ten years ago that all the cross cultural, distance, and language hassles just were not ‘worth the bother’.
One occasional mail can change your life
I stopped my membership to a dating service but they sent me occasional emails which I would delete. And then I opened an email and the eyes of a certain woman bored into my soul.
I waited several days, trying to get a grip on myself “Do not fall in love with a picture” went through my mind. Well, we have been communicating via email for one year and this past July (2018) I traveled to Sumy to meet her. We both were so nervous we could barely speak as we met at a restaurant and proceeded to try to get to know each other a little.
How to communicate without knowing the language
Thank God I thought to buy an electronic translator. Her English is not so good and my Russian (working on it) is almost nonexistent. Well, for six days we would meet at restaurant, share pictures and such then walk around town through parks and various sites.
I was prompted to write when I read about ‘Ukrainian attitudes toward kissing’ because other than the European (three) cheek kissing, there was none. And no other source discusses this issue, as well as so many others which you touch on and which are so very important to understand.
Final words
So, Irina and I continue our communication and I will be going back for another visit soon.
Thank you for your advice.
Best Regards, Barry
Last Updated & Reviewed: March 07, 2025
