Dating interview: My job as an interpreter at a marriage agency

Editor: Krystyna, founder of Ukrainian Dating Blog & Ukrainian Dating Stories and speaker at the iDate conference. On this blog she shares her knowledge and experiences with international dating and intercultural relationship.  Read more

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Thousands of men from all over the world are looking for a wife from Ukraine and Russia. Numerous International marriage agencies offer them their services. An employee of one dating agency in Kiev tells about the details of her job as an interpreter, about writing hundreds of love letters and about Ukrainian dating.

About the interpreter:

Name: Marina Levchenko
Age: 21 y.o.
Job: Interpreter at an International marriage agency in Kiev
Work experience:  2 years

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Krystyna

How did you find this job?

Marina

Marina

Two years ago, I decided to check my English; thus I filled up my resume with a new job, namely: a translator at a marriage agency. I saw a job role on the internet and then called this agency. After that I was invited to an interview. During the interview, I was briefly told what I had to do.

At first sight, the job sounds very nice. Requirements for candidates are following: a good knowledge of English as well as communication skills. Theoretically, that’s all. But in fact, the job is not as easy as it may seem. It’s very serious because you are responsible for people’s happiness.

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Krystyna

What are your responsibilities? What is your schedule?

Marina

Marina

You may choose the working hours as you wish. During my working hours, I have to work on the computer and be online because the agency staff has to discuss all the moments of the dating business collectively. For example, we discuss how to find a Western man for a new Ukrainian girl as soon as possible. My responsibilities are following:

Writing personal letters (on behalf of the women) on the online dating site of this marriage agency
Interpreting communication during meetings in person

The fact is that I wrote personal letters not a long time because I wanted to work only as an interpreter at meetings.

The online dating site has numerous profiles of Ukrainian women for marriage with their photos and personal information. The agency’s clients are foreigners who look for a possible life partner online. When the men make their choice, they pay a certain amount and start their correspondence with the girl. They believe that, but in fact, our female clients do not speak foreign languages. As a result, we, agency translators, are actually communicating with the men.

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Krystyna

Do you have love letter templates, or does the female client tell you what you need to write to a potential husband from the Western world?

Marina

Marina

I am writing letters by myself, there are no standards. I use my fantasy and write whatever comes to my mind. There is a plan of correspondence. If you want to earn your “pennies”, you have to write half a hundred love letters to potential “princes” daily. Sometimes, the number of letters might be much less because the most important thing is not quantity but quality.

The main thing in the dating & marriage business is to attract and keep the attention of the male client (roughly speaking, to “sell” the bride to him). The female clients do not participate in the correspondence with foreigners. They do not care about that you are writing to the man. The important thing to them is that they would be invited to the date with the man.

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Krystyna

How much does a translator earn for using their fantasy?

Marina

Marina

A translator earns about 50 hryvna (about $5 USD) for writing one love letter. If you write 50 letters a day, you can earn good money. But it is almost impossible because it is thorny and not productive. As a general rule, you choose a few male customers and correspondent with them regularly.

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Krystyna

You said that now you are not writing love letters anymore. Why not?

Marina

Marina

I do not like it because it’s very boring and wrong. In my opinion, this is just a perversion because you give the men something that does not exist. They believe that they correspond with the potential bride from Ukraine; however, the letters are actually sent as on the conveyor. Thus I decided to translate only at meetings.

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Krystyna

How do these meetings run?

Marina

Marina

The meetings take place in the restaurants. Sometimes we go to some other places such as museums. This is a huge surprise for me. But this happens very rarely, mostly still in expensive restaurants. All meetings are standard. The questions are the same, namely: “Hi, how are you?”, “Where were you born?”, “Who are your parents?”, and “What do you do?”, “Where do you live?” or “Why are you looking for a man online?”

It is clear that the people do not talk about the intimate things with me. So they talk about everything and nothing. The meetings run always easy. Of course, it is a bit uncomfortable because two people do not know each other, and you’re a stranger to them, as well. That means that two strangers try to get into contact (and very often without any success). 🙁

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Krystyna

How much do you earn per date?

Marina

Marina

The Western man pays cash directly to the interpreter. The average fee per hour is about $20 USD. I have to give 5% commission to the marriage agency. The meeting lasts about two or three hours. If everything is fine, you can earn up to $100 USD per date.

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Krystyna

Have the male customers ever invite you to a date?

Marina

Marina

Only once! I had a meeting with an elderly foreigner and a young and very beautiful Ukrainian girl. She was pretty arrogant and rich. And the man was quite unpretentious. It became clear that he had no money for such a lady. We talked a little bit together and the date was quickly over.

After that he told me that tomorrow he was going to go somewhere and asked me whether I would like to accompany him. Moreover, he asked for my phone number. It was understandable that he decided to try his luck with another woman because he had no success with the first lady. But I refused because I was not interested.

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Krystyna

Have you experienced any success story?

Marina

Marina

In my experience, there was one love story. The woman was about 50 years old and came from the Lugansk region. She particularly came to Kiev for meeting Western men. Once upon a time, she met an American Japanese. He was pretty polite but boring. She did not like him (even a 50-year-old woman from Ukraine makes her choice and does not take any man without any feelings).

After that she found an Englishman. He was very successful and had a property in the UK and Spain. They liked each other. Then I knew nothing about their further communication. But after a while I got a call from this woman because she needed my services for translation of some documents. She told me that she was going to marry to John, that Englishman. This is the only love story with happy end! 🙂

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About the editor: Krystyna is an International dating blogger and writer. Here you find more than 500 articles on dating Slavic, Asian and Latin ladies.

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3 Responses

  1. Barry says:

    Krystyna,

    I think this article points to the many ‘scams’ out there, and the basic honesty of some people, in this case Marina. No one is going to succeed if an ‘agency translator’ is answering letters for a woman. After losing interest in international dating ten years ago, I have been communicating with, and have visited someone in Ukraine over the past year.

    We are fortunate that the system Global Ladies uses is a very good translation program and this is our primary communication tool although we do direct emails as well. I think too many of us (men) expect too much too soon, we all (women also) get caught up in our own fantasies and infatuations all too easily (I am 61 and still have not grown out of that).

    So, one year later and Irina and I are still getting to know each other, still becoming more comfortable that we have commonalities we share, learning each other’s language and culture, and this certainly would not happen if someone else (third party) was doing the ‘communicating’.

    As usual, common sense is necessary on all sides, if anyone suspects that there is a ‘go between’ in place, best to walk away and use a different venue to meet and communicate with someone.

  2. If you decide to go to Ukraine for vacation or a business travel, you will probably need an interpreter or local guide. Ukraine Travel Directory created a list of the best Kiev interpreters http://ukraine-vacation-guide.com/dir/interpreters/kiev/317 to help foreign tourists. You will also find there contacts of apartments, hotels, hostels, taxis, theatres, cafes, fast foods and everything you may need for a comfortable Ukraine tourism.

  3. Alina says:

    This is very true story about the dating agencies in Ukraine. I have been working as independent interpreter, personal assistant and guide (with own website offering independent service). And from my experience I have heared many stories from men, as well as few from girls.

    Men complain that very often they spend a lot of money in expencive restaurant, and don’t have any progress with girls. At the same time, girls tell that they work for the dating agency and get paid for visiting such dates, because they share part of the profit with interpreter.

    Once I’ve been ordered by foreign man as independent interpreter for the date, and he told me that his “girlfriend” wants to talk to me by phone firstly. So she called and told me to share some money which I get paid from the man, otherwise she is not interested to waste her time for this meeting…

    Assuming this story I would take this example into consideration as an important sign, if the girl denies independent interpreter (giving any reasons like she is shy with interpreter she doesn’t know or whatever)- there is a big chance that she is just an “dating employee” from the huge dating industry.

    Alina

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