My name is Jana. I would like to write you my real love story with an American man who is still ongoing and it is unknown how it will end… So I need an advice because I am scared to get into a bad situation.
Three months ago, I met an American man on an online dating site www.holostyak.ru. I was immediately attracted to his beautiful face, big brown eyes and a lot of pictures with his dog. I was wondering why such a handsome man is looking for a Ukrainian / Russian woman online.
I first started texting to him
I wrote the first message about his dog to him, and he replied almost immediately. He liked my photos because I was a former photo model and long lived in America. We started to communicate with each other and wrote to each other daily. After the third day, I realized that I found my dream man and remove my profile from this online dating site. He gave me his Skype name and sent me detailed information about him, namely: he is a lawyer and has his office in Santa Monica. That means for me he is a real guy!
I sent a touching letter to him that I remove my profile from the site because I want to be only with him. And he is my dream, and so on. I wrote to him that I want to move to California to live and buy a house for our family. The man said he is shocked by these words. I was going crazy about him…
Dreams about our castle near the ocean
But the man was seriously interested in my apartment in Moscow I wanted to sell. He asked how much it costs. Then, he began to send me different offers on houses (from $500,000 to $1 million) daily… When I asked him why he sent me such expensive homes, he said that this is the best investment and he wants to live in a house with a view of the ocean. A good wish, isn’t it??
He called me every day and spoke only of property. I’m madly in love with him just because he is handsome. He also told me that I am beautiful and he wants have kids with me. He said he was married to a Russian woman from Saint Petersburg; but she was a bitch and a fraud, he paid for her medical university. But she met another man and got married to him.
While he says that he is a successful lawyer and has an apartment in Paris and a house in the mountains of California, he dreams to sell my apartment in Moscow and buy a house in the United States. I generally do not understand his words.
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My fairytale is ended
I just recently scored his name into Google and found out that he is registered on Vkontakte.ru and have a lot of contacts with girls from Ukraine, Belarus and Moldova.
I’m shocked…. Besides, I found out that his native language is Farsi; in other words, he is from Iraq or Iran (not native American).
I do not know what I have to do further. I am in love, but I do not trust him anymore…
About the editor: Krystyna is the author of three dating ebooks, including ‘Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies’ & ‘International Dating Digest For Men: Finding Love Overseas’. As the leading International Dating Expert and Dating Coach Krystyna is a consultant for many dating sites and is involved in a wide variety of different areas, such as personal dating coaching, online dating and matchmaking.
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